Author Dr. Skip Downing wrote about understanding emotional intelligence, which is, as I see it, one's ability to be aware of how emotion — rational or irrational — affects life choices. Two educators — I have forgotten their names — wrote that most people operate at a kindergarten level and that means, "It's not my fault!
Maybe having it all is really the problem
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